- Never both be angry at the same time.
- Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.
- If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your spouse.
- If you have to criti- cize, do it lovingly.
- Never bring up mis- takes from the past.
- Neglect the whole world rather than each other.
- Never go to sleep with an argument un- settled.
- At least once a day say a kind word or pay a compliment to your partner.
- When you have done something wrong, admit it and ask for forgive- ness.
- It takes two to make a quarrel, and the one in the wrong is usually the one who does the most talking.